Please excuse us if you only read here about Jessika being sick and us ranting, but when she is well we dont find the time to blog, we spend time with her. And she sleeps more when she is sick so we write here to let friends and family know whats going on. She is well 85% of the time and very happy, loving singing/speaking and playing ( especially going outside)..
many thanks..
September 14th 2012
Its been a rough 3 weeks since Jessika caught a simple cold around September the 1st and we decided to go in to hospital before any complications arose. We were in there for a week and then sent home even though Jessika is still suffering with the cold and needs constant suctioning every 15 min without the Bi-pap on. She is vomiting everyday usually in the morning and around her feeds, we are not sure if its the stomach flu she got with the cold or if its something new or aggravated by our suctioning? Needless to say the nursing help that was just approved today for two 4 hr blocks a week will come in useful until they make the final decision on 32 hrs a week for Jessika to have a nurse. We know we are on a downwards slope now with her health, but we never realized how terrible it is to have no real tests or trials for type 1 SMA children. We are excluded from almost every cure test or trial on usually 2 or 3 reasons (they want older than 2 yrs old, her having a G-tube, the fact she is type 1 and not having a life expectancy of more than 2 yrs from start of any trial) So let’s hope they have a breakthrough in one of the other types that can trickle down to Jessika. Even a treatment to alleviate some of her symptoms would be amazing like with diabetes (no cure but with medication almost normal life) and they are out there I am sure but where and how do we get them?
Wow was it really April our last update on here (June 16th 2012)Well that just goes to show how well the FaceBook page for Jessika is doing.. 59 people so far and still more add every day.. the link is above somwhere.. and of course we will keep this one for some updates and information for people who just dont want Facebook.. and for the donation button found furthur down that i dont think facebook will allow on their site .. yet.
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well we had an operation planned for 20th april and it was cancelled due to lack of ICU beds just as we got in the hospital parking. then to be honest we had 9 weeks of amazing weather and great health and good times at home.. my mum even came from England for 3 weeks. the next op was scheduled for 13th June.. but again was cancelled for the same reasons.. we are so happy that we have been able to be at home and enjoy time with Jessika, i am on compassionate care leave and this time with jessika is priceless.. i really do hope you go and see all the updates and photos on Facebook. So sorry its been so long and thank you to the two people recently who donated to Jessikas site.. i will get time to add your names to the thank you page.. one of them is Rob Morin who just by chance saw my email signature to this site.. thank you.. his and your donations couldnt come at a better time..
April 7 2012
Happy Easter weekend everyone...Jessika will be enjoying the beautiful weather with a walk to Quinn farm to visit the animals!! She's doing well, getting over her cold, happy to be at home! Missing her brothers though, she's been asking for them every day since we got back home. As long as the weather is nice we can have visitors over because we can stay outside, then at least Jessika sees someone other than me and Jeff. We'll have a little visit from Christian and Oma tomorrow so we can give him his Easter present!
We put a bird feeder just outside Jessika`s window and she has really loved seeing all the birds come and eat (baby birds, mommy birds and daddy birds according to Jessika) but really we`ve seen woodpeckers, chickadees, red winged blackbirds and sparrows.
April 03 2012
Ahhh! we're home again! with a follow up next week and a procedure the week after! So tired, Jeffrey Parry was amazing in the hospital letting me sleep the early shift every night so he is very tired too but it's so nice to be home and looking forward to sleeping in our bed instead of a hospital chair tonight!!! Jessika's not out of the woods yet, CT scan from yesterday showed that she has a deformity in her lung that is giving us all these problems. Apparently she has an extra bronchial, it's very thin and keeps getting plugged with mucous when she gets sick, acting like a one way valve letting air in but not out after so the lung is blowing up like a balloon, pushing everything else over to the point where it caused the left lung to collapse completely. If we can't find a way to take care of this we will have this problem every time Jessika gets sick. Oh and this problem has nothing to do with the SMA, just a completely separate issue, poor baby doesn't have enough to deal with as it is :(
April 2nd 2012
We are sorry for lack of communication..
unfortunatly after we write long emails and messages to post on her .. the hospital pc freezes and we lose it all.. long message lost to lisa marie, and long update here lost also..we will try again but it took me over 20 min to write this.. needless to say a great big thanks to everyone who attended the fundraiser, and to those who couldnt attend and donated to Jessikas fund by the button below..we will thank you asap on the thanks to donors page as soon as we can ..for now thanks to Alana burns for her generouse donation.. i have to go and save this before i lose it.. more updates soon we promise.. for now Jessika still is improving slowly and the hospital want us out asap even if she is not ready.. but we are sensible and will do whats best for Jessika .. her right lung is still the same ( fully hyper inflated) but the left collapsed lung has opened slowly each day.. we go for a ct scan at 4pm we hope and may have more info after that..
March 26-27 2012
Still in the hospital after rushing here tonight at 7pm..its almost 1 am here now and i am goingt o try get 2 hrs sleep then Eva.... Jessikas left lung has totally collapsed.. its touch and go tonight.. we are so exausted we are not sure if we can go through this .. but we are here and by Jessikas side 100%.. she has slept mostly since we got here.. and the drs say she is doing a lot better than the expected given the severity of the collapse.. we are not allowed to do anything or give her any thing till morning .. we have to wait and see if she stabalizes by then.. they have no idea what they might do since its causing other complications.. we are hoping to knwo some more tomorrow.. we are lucky she made it to hospital and that we called for the ambulance when we did.. all we can do now is pray..March 26th 2012
Even though Jessika is sick, again, we are trying to be positive. We moved Jessika into the bigger of our two bedrooms and moved the boys, and all their stuff, into the smaller room. It seems to work better, we have room now for all of Jessika's things to go inside her own room (a lot of her equipment and toys were in the middle of the living room) and all the boys' stuff fits in their room. We hope to get them a bunk bed sometime soon to make it even more cozy!
A lot of things have changed for Jessika in the last few months, as is normal for developing children! She speaks and communicates far above the normal two year old level and is able to ask for the things she wants such as "more drink" or "watch tv" "watch finding nemo" or " watch happy feet two" specifically. She can also ask for "more suction" and can ask to have her mask on or off depending on how she feels. She tells us when she needs her diaper changed and when she wants something that she likes "apple" which she likes to hold, "chocolate" which she likes to eat or she asks for some of her favorite toys "elie" for elephant, "big" for big bird, "cookie" for cookie monster, "mister Rabbit" for her cuddly rabbit. She sings and talks through all her favorite movies and will act out scenes by herself, in her bedroom, in the mornings while she's waiting for us to get out of bed and come and see to her! Many mornings we wake up to shouts of "Nemo! Nemo! Noooo!" and "Help Daddy! Help me!" since Finding Nemo has become one of Jessika's favorite movies.
Jessika's favorite things; Food: chocolate, honey, cookies, apples, bananas, cheese. Although she has, since the end of December been struggling a lot more to eat food by mouth, to the point now where all of her nutrition comes from cans of formula given to her through her G-tube and she only gets a few small tastes of other things. She doesn't drink from a bottle anymore, instead we give her drops of liquid (water, juice) from a small syringe. But she still loves apple juice, blackcurrant juice, and Daddy's special tea (she started drinking this week through her cold, a Ricolla lozenge dissolved in water).
Jessika's favorite animals? She can name and loves so many it's hard to tell which is her favorite but, if I had to name one, it would be the Elephant (Elie), but she likes monkeys, birds, chickens, cows, sheep, pigs (she sees these at Quinn farms whenever we walk over there, which is almost daily when the weather is good and she is healthy of course), tigers, giraffe, cats, dogs, rabbits, frogs, turtles, penguins, sharks, elephant seals (elie seal), fish, etc... we can't wait until we can take her for a trip to Granby Zoo this spring or summer, I think she will love it! She really liked going to the Biodome last year to see the Penguins.
Jessika loves music and will pretend to sing along with almost everything and she dances with her hands and also with her face, she moves eyebrows up and down and wiggles her eyes and nose around! So Funny! We ordered her an Elmo CD and received it this week, from New Zealand, called Elmo sings my name and he interacts with Jessika through the whole CD "Jessika, won't you tell Elmo how to get, how to get to Sesame Street" and "Tingaleeo, dance Jessika dance"! She really likes it and I'm sure she'll be singing along with Elmo as soon as she gets better!
Jessika's favorite TV; Finding Nemo, Happy Feet 1 and 2, Tangled, Dumbo, Caillou, Dora, Curious George (the TV series not so much the movie), Beauty and the Beast, Babar, Sesame Street, Word World, all the skits on Kid's CBC with musical guests singing along with Sid, Patty and Mammy Yamma, the Lion King, etc... yes, ok, maybe Jessika watches a lot of TV lol
Jessika loves her brothers whom she asks for by name, Christian and Joshua. She asks to see Oma now when it's been a few days since she's seen her and everytime we drive past a Tim Horton's says "Oma! Oma! Where are you?" (so we told her Oma lives at Tim Horton's).
We've said it many times; 85% of the time Jessika is happy, full of life, laughter and chatter. She makes everyone smile! But then there are the times when she's sick, when it breaks your heart to see her so miserable, struggling to breathe, unable to speak and it's in these times, when nobody else sees her, that me and Jeff have to be at our best and beyond; where we have to work our hardest to keep Jessika alive with us no matter how tired, or how stressed, angry, or depressed we are. Of course we will be angry when she gets sick, angry that no matter how hard we try we still can't keep her safe because we can't have complete control over every situation, over every person, unless we keep Jessika in a bubble and stop her from living this beautiful life that she's been given.
March 12th 2012
We went to hospital again, and had another x ray. Wont know the results for a while, since the Dr was not there to look at them and we didn't want to stand around all day when everyone inc hospital staff were very sick and most coughing and sneezing without even covering their mouths.. so stupid to see. and we were there 2 hrs which was enough.. we all were wearing masks as per usual on hospital visits.. and on our way home we got some more crazy news.. the children christian was around while under the watchful eye of his grandmother have now confirmed hand foot and mouth disease... i mean who in their mind lets a kid who has to come home to a child like Jessika near someone knowing they have a fever of over 39 degrees. crazy or what.. now we hope and pray that he didn't bring it home with him ..
March 7th 2012
Had follow up xray today...there's still a blockage in the right lung but it has decreased in size. As long as the block is there we are at risk of hyper inflation again. Now that the right lung has moved out of the way we can clearly see that the left lung has a significant collapse in the lower portion (about one third) which we will have to work on to get that filled up again, if we can get t...hat filled up again. Anyway, although we are not even close to being in the free n clear with this, the plan to do a CT scan and bronshoscopy has been put on the back burner. We go back to the hospital on Monday to do another Xray, as long as things don't get worse before then. We are at home, we have all our equipment and we know what to do so we will do our best and keep praying that our sweet little angel makes it out of this most recent threat/trauma/challenge!
March 5th 2012
We're back home now after spending the weekend in the ICU. I'm too tired to go into detail right now, I'll probably post something more in depth tomorrow for those who didn't receive the email I sent out yesterday. I'll say this though, the worst is yet to come... we have a big problem with potential for fatal results if not taken care of...we'll be back in the hospital on Wednesday, probably also on Friday and most likely we'll be going back for another two+ day stay in ICU sometime early next week for a procedure called a bronchoscopy. Anyway I will explain more tomorrow, I'm exhausted emotionally, physically...wish I didn't have to go and do laundry and dishes now...alas it seems the maid quit while we were in the hospital
March 3rd 2012
You could say my god she is so unlucky.. but imagine if we hadn't come in and it exploded at home.. NO we are so lucky .. right place right people .. right time..
They reduced the pressure on the bi pap ( breathing machine for night that she is on all day now) because imagine we are actually putting air in while we do our normal routine with a lot of pressure ( no choice though) NOW .. good news.. since the x ray yesterday .. the one this morning showed not only no growth of the lung but also a slight decrease in size. we are here 24/7 .. we need prayers , help and support..
i will have to go home ( an hour away) to get some clothes and food since we cannot afford to eat local take out.. Jessika was very awake all night till 4am .. and is now only sleeping .. she was demanding a drink driving me crazy from 10pm till 330am.. ( my shift..lol) and of course i was giving her a bit of a drink..
she hasn't woken up today .. but we will keep you informed how she is doing.. if it continues to go down.. even if in high danger they may send us home ( don't get crazy.. its so dangerous here.. most kids get secondary infections from here.. and that would finish her.. and we have ALL the Equip at home and Training.. even oxygen and all the machines.. just not something to do if lung pops) but the cannot keep her here for the rest of her life if it goes up and down forever.. :-) the Dr also said we have no real idea that it is a mucus plug.. but its 99% sure.. ( they don't actually see it) and it could have been there 6 moths or 6 hrs.. its possible she gets them all the time..?
all we know is Eva noticed Jessikas chest get bigger on the right side about 5 or 6 days ago.. and everything points to this being recent.. and that she may just be prone to plugs in that area since it is the longer thinner air way of them all.. that's bundles more info and back info on this .. but you got the main gist of it. our love as always goes out to you all .. and we hope to see it returned..
Jeff, Eva and Jessika..
January 26th 2012
So we are finally just a couple of days away from
Jessika's 2nd birthday, the milestone that we were told, in the original
prognosis, that Jessika probably wouldn't reach. We're stressed, we're
scared, Jessika has another cold so that doesn't help, but we're so
excited to be on the verge of celebrating her birthday with her! Things
haven't been easy, we have been struggling financially, as I know so
many others are as well, Jeff has taken on a second job and I will start
a 30 day training course in a few days so that I can work from home and
bring in an income as well. I'll be answering phones for Rogers
wireless, from home.
Jeff has been working so hard to keep our
heads above water and I have my tasks of taking care of the household
chores and taking care of Jessika, thankfully Christian can fend for
himself, mostly. But it's time I started earning some extra income for
the family as well, something substantial. So I'm keeping my fingers
crossed that this will work out and
I'm hoping for the best 2nd
birthday possible for Jessika, and the best 3rd and 4th and 5th, etc...
And thanking God every single day for the love and support of my
husband, my kids, my family, my friends and everyone, everyone, who has
supported us through this. Jessika, you are an amazing, wonderful,
special girl and I love you so much, I can't imagine a world without
you.
Dec 18th 2011
Jessika is again sick, the simplest of colds from one of her brothers has floored her again, mucus plugs and constant supervision to pull her back over and over again until the inevitable.
Why ... Why do we do it, .. If you ever met our angel you wouldn't have to ask, she is smiling constantly even through illness, she is only 21 months and can speak a wide variety or what can only be described as orders for me and her mum to carry out such as " word world" her favorite tv show or" elly" when she wants us to do noises of different animals with her, she knows a lot including monkey, tigers, dog, cat, sheep, duck, fish and more and can recognize and copy the sounds even without prompting. she is amazing every single day.. and we love her so much that to sacrafice our time and effort is the least we can do.
We managed to find a home, we moved 4 weeks ago after the nightmare my wife's step father put us through in the house we were in. now we are settled again and couldn't be happier. i am sure Eva will add more later when Jessika stabilizes.
sorry it took so long to update you all, but its been a crazy couple of months.. i really hope to get some more photos and videos of Jessika up on facebook or here soon.. thanks and chat soon.. jeff
July 03rd 2011
June 3rd 2011
June 1st
We've been at the hospital since saturday, with Jessika. This is my first time coming home since then, and going online to check messages, etc. Jessika caught a cold, rhinovirus, and, due to the increased mucous and an inability to cough effectively, ended up with a mucous plug that stopped her from breathing. She had an episode on Saturday, which was very intense and scary as hell, and we had to act fast, do some mouth to mouth, suction, etc. Anyway, we got her breathing and brought her to the hospital. She's had 4 other episodes the same, in the hospital, since then but only one in the last 60+ hours. She is improvong as the virus eases off and the doctors have started to wean her off oxygen, slowly. It's been a rollercoaster ride and we've not reached the end yet but we hope that, by next week, we should be home. For now though, we are still in the ICU, not leaving Jessika's side. I will try to post again as Jessika's situation changes.
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January 14th 2011
December 8th 2010
Yesterday we did a hospital day; crammed as many appointments into one afternoon as were available and necessary. So we met with the respirologist and physiotherapist together to learn how to do chess physio (clapping and vibrating Jessika's chest, sides and back along the rib cage to loosen mucuos and fluids in her lungs) and breath stacking (using an ambubag(bag used for CPR)that has been modified we push air into Jessika's lungs, like when you take a deep breath in before a cough, and then the air is sucked out when we remove the mask and break the seal). We learned that we will get the suction machine that we need, possibly on our next hospital day(dec 20th) and that we SHOULD get the BiPap machine (that we will use as a breathing aid for Jessika when she is sleeping) around the end of winter/early spring and that it SHOULD be covered by medicare. We will need to do a couple of sleepovers at the hospital between now and then as part of the process of getting this machine. We are still being told that the cough assist will not be covered by medicare but the respirologist will write a prescription for the machine and we will find a way to pay the $6000 cost.
Next we saw the surgeon; we discussed the G-tube surgery and convinced the doctor that we want it ASAP, while Jessika is still strong enough to survive the aneasthesia, and the surgery should be scheduled within the next 4 weeks. The surgery will last 45min to 1 hour, scarring will be minimal as they now make very small incisions for keyhole entry type surgery. She will most likely spend 2 days in hospital for recovery. We will not be doing the Nissen surgery, to prevent acid reflux, as we do not think it is necessary and neither does the surgeon.
Jessika and Jeff both had their flu shots done before we left the hospital, no adverse side effects so far apart from being a little more tired than usual. Christian and I had our done on Monday with no bad reaction as well.
I also got a call from the MacKay center on Monday telling me that we can pick up Jessika's new, adapted stroller on Monday next week! Yay!
Last week we received a flotation ring for Jessika (a gift from her Oma, my mom) to use as a swim aid for water therapy. It goes around her neck, supporting her head and keeping it out of the water, so that her body is completely free to move in the water. And does she ever move! There's such a contrast between what Jessika is able to do out of the water and in the water. I only let her do 30 minutes at a time so she doesn't get too tired but she enjoys it so much she would probably stay in the water for an hour without complaint. http://www.waterwaybabies.com/
We have started, slowly, adapting the house for Jessika; the first thing we have done is to install a hand sanitizer at the front door along with a box of surgical masks. Eventually we will need a different bed for Jessika; she does not need a crib because she cannot move to roll out of it and it will be easier for me to access her without bars. We will also be looking into some carts/trolleys that we can load Jessika's machines,etc on so they can easily be wheeled from one area of the house to the other along with Jessika. We will try to find ways to decorate Jessika's room and play areas to make them more interesting for her; pictures on the walls, hanging toys, etc. For the moment we are doing what we can and always thinking of what we will need in the future.
November 30th 2010
Today we picked up Jessika's special chair(see the photos page) from the MacKay center in Montreal. We also got a bit of good news: our application for the Otto Bock Kimba stroller was approved by RAMQ(medicare), the therapist handling our case has already placed an order for the stroller and, if we're lucky, we may receive it by Christmastime! Next week we will be meeting with Marion(physical therapist) and Dr. Zilinski(respirologist) to learn about chest physio and to find out about the progress of our applications for the cough assist, suction machine, BiPap and oximeter. We will also meet with a surgeon to discuss having Jessika's G-tube put in. Another bit of good news that is doctor related; We received a reply email from Dr. Bach, he specializes in pediatric neurology and is a leader in SMA treatment in the US and worldwide and has developed the NIV(non-invasive) protocol that involves all the machines we are asking for at the moment. He runs a clinic in New Jersey but visits Montreal occasionally and has agreed to meet with us when he visits Montreal during the holidays! I'm very excited to meet a Doctor who has spent more than 20 years researching and treating SMA. He has helped many families and proplonged the lives of many SMA babies/kids. We are really looking forward to meeting him!
Sleep study: 17th November 2010
Last night Jessika and I stayed at the Montreal Children`s Hospital for a sleep study. This study was set up to assess Jessika`s respiratory abilities during sleep and is one necessary step on the road to acquiring the Bipap machine, suction machine and the cough assist.
We arrived in the sleep lab just after 7pm. Our room was big enough for one hospital bed, one hospital crib, a couple of chairs, a desk and some equipment. It was cozy enough, quiet and private. Our nurse, Jacinthe, was friendly and helpful. Jacinthe and I spoke about Jessika`s bedtime routine, I filled out the necessary paperwork and then Jessika needed to be prepped. Jacinthe took some measurements and carefully marked out 23 spots, with a red crayon, where she would put electrodes on Jessika`s chest, face and head. These electrodes would monitor Jessika`s sleep, to be sure she reached every sleep stage and to have accurate results at the end of the study. Then, with a qtip, Jacinthe cleaned each area to remove dead skin cells and oils. Afterwards each small electrode was glued onto Jessika`s skin. Next an oxygen monitor was affixed to Jessika`s big toe, a CO2 monitor was stuck to her abdomen and two long, thin pieces of stretchy pink fabric were wrapped around her chest and abdomen to monitor her breathing. Our lovely nurse bundled all the wires up and tucked them comfortably out of reach and taped shut the front of Jessika`s sleeper (I brought one with a zip...next time I`ll know that snaps are best!). I was able to cuddle my baby girl and nurse her before Jacinthe affixed a nasal oxygen monitor and we tucked her into bed.
This all happened before 9pm. Jessika fussed for a while and woke up a few times in the first few hours but finally, after 2am, Jessika found her deep sleep and dozed soundly until almost 6am. All the electrodes were removed, the monitors and pink bands as well and I was able to take my sleepy little angel home.
The data that was collected as a result of this test will be compiled and we should know the results when we meet with our Respirologist on the 20th of December. by Eva